A colleague of mine was returning from a trip to Zimbabwe, he walked into our business meeting and asked the group a simple question: “How would you like to become instant billionaires?”
He had our attention, our eyes were fixed on him and we waited for the inspired plan to make this happen. He calmly pulled out his wallet and handed each of us a crisp 50-Billion-dollar bill from the Bank of Zimbabwe! Then he said that if the four of us agreed to pull our resources together, we would be able to get a loaf of bread and possibly a kilogram of sugar……
There is a story that in 75 BC a young Roman nobleman named Julius Caesar was kidnapped by pirates and held for ransom. When they demanded 20 talents of silver in ransom (about $600,000 today), Caesar laughed and said they obviously had no idea who he was. He insisted they raise the ransom to 50 talents! Why? Because he believed he was worth far more than 20 talents
I was reminded of the contrast of the two stories above as I watched my kids open their Christmas presents this morning. As happens around many a Christmas tree this time of the year, many expensive and not so expensive items are wrapped and exchanged. A lot of these are given to people who do not need them, will never use or value them enough as evidenced by the long return/exchange lines starting tomorrow or the totally blessed re-gifting.
The other side of the coin are many items that a cheap, or seemingly worthless packaged/wrapped or not and given to receptive, appreciative hearts that will value them for ever.
And then there are the gifts that are priceless: Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control which are free and easy to give all year round.
Over the years, I have learned to listen for the verbal and non-verbal reactions as the gifts are opened. I am always encouraged when I get it right and the list of:” mom can we exchange this” has gone down steadily.
The casual dictionary definitions of worth and value use each word in the other word’s definition.
Worth: having monetary or material value
Value: the material or monetary worth of something
To get the real difference between the two, one has to get to the third or forth definitions:
Value the verb: consider (someone or something) to be important or beneficial; have a high opinion of.
And worth the noun: the value equivalent to that of someone or something under consideration; the level at which someone or something deserves to be valued or rated.
This tells me thatas we enter 2017, we need to give more of the priceless gifts to family, friends, business associates, employees, bosses because the more we give these, the more we will get them back in return. As for worth and value, the same rule applies, the people we value, the gifts we value will increase their worth to us! But most importantly, we need to know who we are, know our worth, value ourselves and others.
Happy New year may your value increase as your net worth increases in 2017!
The article delves into various concepts, intertwining monetary worth, value, and the intangible yet invaluable gifts of love, joy, and kindness. The narrative draws parallels between material wealth and intrinsic worth, using anecdotes from history and personal experiences to highlight the distinction between worth and value.
Let's break down the concepts touched upon in the article:
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Monetary Worth vs. Value:
- The distinction between the monetary or material worth of something (as exemplified by the Zimbabwean 50-billion-dollar bills) and the deeper, subjective value we place on items or experiences.
- The anecdote of Julius Caesar's ransom demand showcases the perception of one's self-worth surpassing the assigned monetary value.
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Gifts and their Perception:
- The article contrasts material gifts, often unnecessary or less valued, with intangible, priceless gifts such as love, joy, peace, and kindness.
- It emphasizes the importance of understanding recipients' needs and preferences to offer gifts that hold personal value rather than just monetary worth.
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Understanding Worth and Value in Relationships:
- The author encourages giving priceless gifts—emotions and virtues—to foster deeper connections and appreciation.
- Recognizing the distinction between worth and value in relationships, where value is about importance and having a high opinion of someone or something, while worth is the level at which someone or something deserves to be valued or rated.
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Self-Worth and its Impact:
- The article encourages self-awareness and understanding one's own worth, highlighting that knowing and valuing oneself can positively influence relationships and interactions.
The piece encourages a shift in perspective, urging individuals to prioritize valuable, meaningful gifts over purely materialistic ones and to recognize the importance of understanding one's worth and the worth of others in fostering deeper connections and appreciation. It also suggests that by giving these priceless gifts, one is more likely to receive them in return, emphasizing the reciprocity of emotions and virtues in relationships.
This reflective approach towards worth, value, and the nature of gifting seems to stem from personal experiences and a deep understanding of human interactions and emotions. It highlights the nuances between material wealth and the priceless qualities that truly enrich our lives.
